Staying in Your Reality

Relationships can be difficult, but a relationship with someone who has high-spectrum narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder, can not only be difficult, but also emotionally and mentally destructive!

Hide and Seek…The Narcissist’s Favorite Game

While there are many more games played by Narcissists, the game I found them playing the most is “Hide and Seek”. Of course, the rules and object of the game are much different than the one we played as children.

revolving door

The Narcissist’s Revolving Door

The Narc is the only one that comes and goes quickly without being seen by the others.

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Narcissist’s Pity Party

Narcissists love to throw themselves pity parties, but please don’t accept the invitation!

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Narcissist's Poison Arrow

Narcissist’s Poison Arrow

Narcissists are very selective in who their targets are and they go through quite the process to finding and grooming one.

The Narcissist’s Golden Rule

Narcissists do not follow the universal Golden Rule because they have their own rule. Their Golden Rule reads more like this: “treat others horribly no matter how good they treat you”. The odd thing about their rule that is that it seems to be universal amongst all narcissists.

Humpty Dumpty…A Short Story About a Relationship with a Narcissist

Humpty Dumpty was put on a pedestal, then Humpty Dumpty was nothing at all, Only his therapist, but none of his friends knew that Humpty Dumpty would never be the same again…..

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Mommy Smearest

Once you determine that you have been in a one-sided, crazy-making relationship with a narcissist, then chances are you will also learn that you been the victim of a smear campaign. After narcs are secure in knowing that you are emotionally involved with them, you get transferred to the devalue...

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Feels Like the First Time: Narcissistic Abuse

Once victims of abuse start searching the world wide web for answers as to why their partner, spouse, friend or lover never apologize, continually lie, talk behind their back, casually reject them, and expose them to days, sometimes weeks of the silent treatment, they stumble upon the personality...

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Utica Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Meetup

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